Homework, it is something we have all experienced and as educators it is a part of our profession. I teach first grade and even them at a young age have homework almost nightly. That is a whole other conversation but I ask myself, am I giving my students homework or their parents. I read an article from The Wall Street Journal about parents helping their child too much with their homework. I think this is starting to happen more and more and with a variety of age levels. It is causing students to become helpless and too dependent on adults.
Schools are urging parents to take part in their child’s education and that includes homework. Families are living very busy lives and often times have events and activities on school nights. This adds pressure to complete homework after a long day before bedtime. Parents provide extra help which usually includes giving more answers than assistance because they feel they have to make sure their child is keeping up with the competitiveness of the current education system. A great example of this happened in my classroom today. A little guy was having trouble with a math problem and as soon as others started to finish he came up to me and said, “I’m just going to take this home so my mommy can help me.” I was shocked that he wouldn’t just ask me (the teacher) for help. When I said he needed to finish it at school he started crying. I’m sure we have also seen the big projects that come with mom’s and dad’s touches to them. They look perfect and when you ask the student how they completed it or why they did it that way they don’t have anything to say. I have seen this every year, one project specifically. Every Thanksgiving we send home a turkey that the students are supposed to disguise and many return very cute but very much done by a parent. When I say done by a parent I don’t mean they did it when their child was in bed, I mean the parents put more work or influence on the project than the child does. In my opinion this is destroying our children. Students compare their work to work that was mainly done by an adult and they get frustrated when they don’t see the same results.
I found one article that gives a suggestion to set ups a homework area in the home. Another article gives suggestions to use at home to make homework go smoothly and less stressful. The most important points are to have a certain time and place that homework occurs so it is consistent and turn the TV off!!! I really liked this site because it offers tips and answer the common questions on how to guide your child through their homework not do it for them. I think this is a great article to share with parents at a conference or in a newsletter.
Are you noticing anything like this in your classrooms? Do you have suggestions for teacher or parents in this situation?
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